Let your
essence
flourish.

Esmée Rotmans seated in a white blouse, smiling warmly towards the camera
Esmée Rotmans, MAPsychotherapist · Supervisor · Trainer

Psychological depth.
Spiritual awareness.

For your own inner life.
For the work you do with others.

UKCP-registered psychotherapistOver 25 years’ experienceIntegrative & transpersonal

Welcome to The Essential Self

Reconnect
with who you really are.

Perhaps you understand why a pattern began, but still find yourself living it.

You may notice it in the way you speak to yourself, the relationships you find difficult, or the distance between your spiritual practice and everyday life.

We can be curious about these experiences together. There is room for what hurts, what matters to you, and what you are still trying to understand.

How I approach the work

Ways to work together

Find your starting point

For whatever you bring

Psychotherapy

Understand recurring difficulties, explore your relationships and give attention to the parts of you that need care.

Therapeutic coaching sits within this work, for bringing insight into the life you are living now.

Online · In person

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For therapists and practitioners

Supervision & mentoring

A reflective space for the complexity of practice, including its psychological and spiritual dimensions.

Also for practitioners whose work touches emotional ground they were not trained for.

Integrative · Transpersonal

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For rest and restoration

Reiki

In-person and distant sessions, offered as a separate part of the practice.

In person · Distant · Gift vouchers

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You do not have to choose alone

If more than one description feels familiar, start with what brings you.

Ask me where to begin

A first conversation

You can begin where you are

A free 15-minute introductory call offers space to ask questions and explore a possible next step. You do not need to tell your whole story.

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